Friday, December 21, 2007
Eva, Tony and a marriage tip
It doensn't take long for the new to wear off...just ask Eva and Tony...3 months in and the accusations fly...As a spurs fan I hope he's innocent...N.B.A. player/French/married to hollywood starlet kinda stacks the generalizations against him...but we will see. Marriage is complex and at times tough ....my secret...Marry your best friend....or for some of you...become best friends with the person your married to. Don't have seperate lives, hobbies, interests, etc...do life together. The breaking down of marriage begins with the seperation of roles and duties, jobs and friends and interests and T.V. channel choices... Fight the divide and find the common interest....I don't know whether Tony and Eva will make it...but I will tell you it has everything to do with their choices to live one life or two seperate lives under one roof.
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Amen, brother. Thanks for that! You know, it feels like you're talking directly to me sometimes! Weird...but i'm sure there are lots of people who feel the same way!
Marriage as a contractual reciprocity versus union of agape type selflessness. Drastic chasm of experience and depth separate those 2 paradigms!
Very good stuff - very much needed stuff for us to all hear, wrestle with and engage.
Feliz Navidad.
So childish! PALAVROSSAVRVS REX!
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